When Lightning Strikes

by Jonathan on August 13, 2009

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When you think of Oregon you naturally think of trees, right? Where I live there are trees for as far as the eye can see. In fact, I am literally surrounded by millions of acres of forest.
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As you can imagine, summer thunder storms that bring lightning to the region are a matter of concern. Almost without exception, forest fires are caused by lightning strikes. Some people live with the threat of earthquakes or hurricanes. For us, it’s lightning.
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A burning example
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Consider the Biscuit Fire which took place in the summer of 2002. Before it was over, this ravenous wildfire had burned nearly half a million acres of the pristine Siskiyou National Forest of Oregon and Northern California.
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That was an edgy time for us. We could see the actual flames from our home and we were on 30 minute evacuation alert status for about three weeks. It’s impossible to describe the magnitude or intensity of this raging beast as it consumed everything in it’s path. Suffice it to say, it was truly fear inspiring.
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There is no way to prevent lightning
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There are many potential threats in life that we can avoid by taking preventative measures. However, a major force like lightning does not fit into this category. There is nothing we can do to alter it’s course even slightly, let alone prevent it.
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It is estimated that, on average, over the entire earth’s surface, lightning strikes approximately 100 times per second. Since this is something that can’t be altered, what options do we have?
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Deal with it effectively
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When something can’t be prevented, the next best thing is to deal with it swiftly and effectively. This is precisely why the Biscuit Fire was so devastating. It was allowed to burn unchecked until it was too late.
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There was a time when strategically placed lookout towers were manned by fire watchmen all summer long. As soon as a fire started, they notified the smoke jumpers. These fire fighting “hot shots” would be dispatched by helicopter within minutes. They dealt with the problem before it got out of control. Their swift response minimized the potentially serious threat.

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Side note: For some reason, the powers that be closed the smoke jumpers base and stopped using lookouts prior to the Biscuit Fire.
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When lightning strikes your world  
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Now the odds that you or I will be struck by actual lightning during our lifetime are only about 1 in 5000. But what are the odds that we will experience some potentially devastating, unpreventable event?
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The fact that we all carry various kinds of insurance pretty well answers that question. Insurance companies make billions every year because people recognize that unforeseen occurrences befall us all. It’s one of the ways we try to prepare for things that we can’t control.
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When bad things happen
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Bad stuff happens, and sometimes there is nothing you could have done to prevent it. The next best thing you can do is to respond like a smoke jumper. Act swiftly to minimize the problem before it gets out of control.
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I realize that this sounds like painfully obvious advice. Our logical mind says: “hey, tell me something I don’t know.” But here’s the problem, when unforeseen occurrences strike, we are usually caught off guard. In situations like that, we tend to respond emotionally, not logically.
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Take a look around
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How many people do you know who use denial as a coping mechanism? All this does is allow a bad situation to get even worse. How many others allow fear to stop them from taking action that could minimize their pain and suffering? Fear and denial only multiply problems, they never help.
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Reality is your friend, especially in a threatening situation. But this concept is also true when it comes to preventable problems. Consider the relationship that slowly grows cold because no one was willing to talk about “the problems” until it was too late. How about the minor health issues that set the stage for major health problems because someone was in denial.
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Be honest with yourself, you deserve it
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Whether it’s a personal lightning strike or a slow burn, an honest assessment of the situation followed be swift action is always the best course. Sometimes, the hardest person to be honest with is ourselves. Ironically, this is the foundation of all personal growth. The first personal development skill we need to master is self-honesty.
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Admittedly, this kind of honesty will sometimes reveal challenges that we wish didn’t exist. When that happens we should view it as an opportunity for growth. Once exposed, we can minimize the problem by dealing with it swiftly and effectively.
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7 Ways to minimize an adverse situation
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1) Take preventative measures whenever possible.
2) Accept the fact that bad thing do happen to good people.
3) Act swiftly to minimize the problem before it gets out of control.
4) Never use denial as a coping mechanism.
5) Don’t let fear stop you from taking action.
6) Be honest with yourself when making an assessment.
7) View every challenge as an opportunity for growth.
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Life will continue to challenge you
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Interestingly, there are many benefits to lightning. In the bigger picture, life on earth actually requires lightening. Did you realize that without thunderstorms and lightning, the earth-atmosphere electrical balance would disappear in 5 minutes.
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The journey of life has its ups and down, and sometimes we get hit by lightning. No one said it would be without challenges. In the bigger picture though, it’s often our greatest challenges that teach the most valuable lessons. Happily, life is also full of wonderful experiences and opportunities. We can let fear and denial rob us of our joy, or we can embrace the wonderment of it all.

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How do you deal when bad things happen?
Do you find self-honesty challenging?
The lines are open!

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1 Frank J August 13, 2009 at 3:15 pm

Living in New York most my life, there were many tremendous light shows!

I know I went off topic but it reminded me of the crazy August storms we had.
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2 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills August 13, 2009 at 4:48 pm

Hey Frank, lightning storms are impressive, that’s for sure. I love them as long as nothing burns.
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3 Mike King August 13, 2009 at 3:58 pm

Nice on Jonathan. I’ve never thought to put the comparison of adversity to lightning strikes, but I like it. Maybe its because I love lightning so much that I also welcome the challenges you speak of.

Anyway, your little factoid of the atmosphere dissapating away fits well since success would dissapate away as well without the challenges and adversity in our lives.
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4 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills August 13, 2009 at 4:19 pm

Hi Mike, Like you I also love lightning and welcome the challenges. I must admit though, seeing a 5 mile long, 200 foot high wall of flames only a few miles away is a challenge I would prefer to sidestep.

Thanks for connecting the benefits of lightning with the up side of challenges. I can always count on you to see the not so obvious.
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5 Zuzanna M August 13, 2009 at 5:35 pm

Hello Jonathan, I lost my Grandma to lightning-she burned to ashes. That is enough for me. Beautiful when away from it, looks striking but it is a scary stuff…Thank you!
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6 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills August 13, 2009 at 6:19 pm

Hi Z, it certainly is a force to be reckoned with. Sorry about your Grandma. Weird how some people get struck multiple times and are still walking around, others get hit once and that’s it.
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7 Stephen - Rat Race Trap August 13, 2009 at 6:01 pm

Jonathan, I really enjoyed this article. Your summary of seven ways to deal with an adverse situation is an outstanding and concise summary that I definitely want to use. Thanks!
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8 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills August 13, 2009 at 6:20 pm

Thanks Stephen, I am really glad you liked it.
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9 BunnygotBlog August 13, 2009 at 6:25 pm

Hi Jonathan,

You have written an awesome article here bring up several good points about dealing head on in a situation that has happened unexpectedly. I have always been the one to take charge in such cases then had to get use to Thumper, taking over that position from time to time. We use to spend a bit of time arguing about what and who was in ” driver’ s seat” of decision making.

I love thunder storms and Frank is right in New York, they can get very loud here. A couple years back a house was hit and partially burnt.
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10 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills August 13, 2009 at 6:41 pm

Hi bunny, well you and Thumper must have figured it out because you guys seem very tight. I’ve never been in a city during a lightning storm bur it does seem like the thunder would really echo. My wife was home once when lightning hit the telephone line and blew the phone off the wall, that’s close enough.
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11 BunnygotBlog August 13, 2009 at 7:19 pm

Yeah ~ I let him be the man ; ) . I do remind him on occasion who allows him to wear the pants in the family. lol
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12 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills August 14, 2009 at 7:57 am

For some reason, I suspect his version of the story might be slightly different. Of course, he’s more than welcome to make an appearance!
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13 BunnygotBlog August 14, 2009 at 12:41 pm

lol-

Yes, his side would be different and I don’t think he would answer how he usually does … when I say it .
Then he just might ;)
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14 Robin Easton August 14, 2009 at 10:20 am

Whoa! Now you KNOW this “hits” home with me. Having been hit by lightning twice and both times walked away. The first time much worse, had side effects for about a month. But it healed. It did heal didn’t it?? I don’t act weird or anything do I?? LOLOL!!! Okaaaay, I’ll be serious. :)

This whole post goes SO deep, deeper than many might realize. Having lived wild much of my life, I learned that if one is smart they tend to live in survival mode. That does not mean FEAR mode, but AWARENESS mode. There is a distinct difference, which of course you know well and talk about here.

Denial Mode is fear based. We block out all that we do NOT want to know about, all that frightens, alarms or overwhelms us.

In Awareness Mode we may feel overwhelmed or fearful, but we don’t turn our backs on it. We look at it head on, keep a clear open mind and deal practically, realistically with it. We get to know it, understand it and take the necessary steps to protect ourselves so that we can remain strong, healthy, aware and alive.

This is one powerful and exciting post that I could write a whole page about. I believe it speaks directly to the current emotional state of our culture, in that we’re living in Denial Mode on almost every level of our busy-ness. We are currently being called to shift from denial to awareness. In fact, our survival as a species may depend upon this shift. Your work here, Jonathan, is very crucial in bringing about that shift.

PS: I too find it interesting that I’ve been hit by lightning twice and walked away. However, I have since learned a LOT about what to do and where to be during a storm. Oddly being hit by lightning left me with no fear. I still LOVE storms and was fascinated by my experiences, but I DID educate myself.

Thank you. You are bundle of inspiration! :)
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15 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills August 14, 2009 at 7:40 pm

OK Robin, we finally know the source of your super human powers! No wonder you are so highly charged.
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16 Zeenat{Positive Provocations} August 15, 2009 at 1:40 pm

Jonathan, This is really a very reality stricken post..isnt it..
I can very well get the 7 steps you mentioned…..But i think these steps will work in personal calamities as well…i mean a tragedy of sorts, death, loss of a loved one etc…
I personally have been the “bring it on” kind of gal…i am more accepting and dont let things bring me down easily..i gues that helps as well.
But the seven steps are going in my diary for future reference….
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17 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills August 16, 2009 at 3:34 pm

Hi Zeenat, I really appreciate your input, thanks for joining the conversation.
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18 Oscar - freestyle mind August 16, 2009 at 1:35 pm

It’s amazing because I thought 99% of fires were caused by men. Anyway you wrote a deep post and I agree that it’s important to learn how to handle things which could not be prevented. It’s an important skill which I think is 90% controlling emotions. Great article Jonathan!
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19 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills August 16, 2009 at 3:30 pm

Hey Oscar, thanks for joining in. It is probably true that the vast majority of fires in many places are started by people. It’s the summer forest fires in the wilderness of the Pacific Northwest that are primarily caused by lightning. You are absolutely right about the need to control our emotions in these kind of situations.
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20 Susie August 17, 2009 at 4:17 am

I love how you have married the two situations – it puts a visualization on emotion and how we deal with issues. Personal growth is one of the toughest things to tackle, and your statement about honesty within ourselves is really so true.
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21 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills August 17, 2009 at 12:12 pm

Thanks Susie, I try to use real events and situations to illustrate my point whenever possible. I think it makes personal development concepts easier to grasp and appreciate.
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22 Vin - NaturalBias August 17, 2009 at 6:22 am

I had no idea that lightening strikes the earth 100 times per second! Interesting! I suppose it’s easy to not realize this when you only think in terms of how rarely lightening occurs in your area.

It’s inevitable that we’ll all encounter some kind of serious problem. The best we can do is be prepared to minimize the damage, accept the reality of the situation, and not obsess over fear. Great advice!
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23 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills August 17, 2009 at 12:15 pm

Hey Vin, good to see you. Obsessing over fear has a way of preventing the very actions that can minimize the damage. Thanks for pointing that out.
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24 Celes | The Personal Excellence Blog August 18, 2009 at 10:06 am

Jon, what a powerful analogy! This reminds me of Randy Pausch’s quote in Last Lecture – we can’t change the cards we are dealt with, only how we play with them. As you said, when bad things happen, we have to learn to act swiftly and deal with them, rather than sit around and let it get out of control. Great post!
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