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	<title>Comments on: Fear Lessons from a Bear, Rattlesnake, &amp; New Yorker</title>
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		<title>By: DaveUrsillo</title>
		<link>http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/fear-lessons/comment-page-1/#comment-7373</link>
		<dc:creator>DaveUrsillo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2010 02:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>(I never finished my first paragraph, woops! Meant to say...)

...and falling victim to fear within the confines of our minds, related to our thought-processes, beliefs, and decisions we make every day.</description>
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<p>&#8230;and falling victim to fear within the confines of our minds, related to our thought-processes, beliefs, and decisions we make every day.</p>
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		<title>By: DaveUrsillo</title>
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		<dc:creator>DaveUrsillo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2010 02:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the distinction you imply is one that should be stated more outright and often, that there is a difference between the raw, natural emotion of fear as a consequence to circumstances of our lives (like bumping into a bear in the woods!!) and 

While the same emotion, truly, there is a difference. As humans we all experience fear, as we do happiness and sadness. But to choose to embrace the perception of fearlessness -- as you mention -- is one that unduly benefits someone as one pursues his or her lifegoals.

Good piece.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the distinction you imply is one that should be stated more outright and often, that there is a difference between the raw, natural emotion of fear as a consequence to circumstances of our lives (like bumping into a bear in the woods!!) and </p>
<p>While the same emotion, truly, there is a difference. As humans we all experience fear, as we do happiness and sadness. But to choose to embrace the perception of fearlessness &#8212; as you mention &#8212; is one that unduly benefits someone as one pursues his or her lifegoals.</p>
<p>Good piece.</p>
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		<title>By: Stephen - Rat Race Trap</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephen - Rat Race Trap</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 14:32:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jonathan, I loved the snake and bear stories.  Our amygdala will cause us to start moving before we are even consciously aware we have seen something.  I believe you are right on with the perceptual fear stuff.  Stop feeding the beast indeed!
.-= Stephen - Rat Race Trap´s last amazing blog post ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.ratracetrap.com/the-rat-race-trap/taking-a-stand-for-something.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Taking a Stand For Something&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jonathan, I loved the snake and bear stories.  Our amygdala will cause us to start moving before we are even consciously aware we have seen something.  I believe you are right on with the perceptual fear stuff.  Stop feeding the beast indeed!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Stephen &#8211; Rat Race Trap´s last amazing blog post ..<a href="http://www.ratracetrap.com/the-rat-race-trap/taking-a-stand-for-something.html" rel="nofollow">Taking a Stand For Something</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 21:26:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I completely agree Robin, we are people magnets. Whatever our dominate energy is, that energy will attract others. Fear is something that animals can smell, I am sure that we sense it on some level. I remember walking in the hills with a friend. A big mean dog came running toward us and I just kept looking him in the eyes. He ran right past me and bit the other person. Predators can sense fear. I have very few encounters with people who&#039;s energy is predominately negative. They go around me and bite the next guy.

So glade you liked this. Thanks for being here.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I completely agree Robin, we are people magnets. Whatever our dominate energy is, that energy will attract others. Fear is something that animals can smell, I am sure that we sense it on some level. I remember walking in the hills with a friend. A big mean dog came running toward us and I just kept looking him in the eyes. He ran right past me and bit the other person. Predators can sense fear. I have very few encounters with people who&#8217;s energy is predominately negative. They go around me and bite the next guy.</p>
<p>So glade you liked this. Thanks for being here.</p>
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		<title>By: Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 21:16:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Robin, well I&#039;m really not sure how Jerry Lewis runs but I&#039;m laughing anyway. You never know what you will do (or how silly you&#039;ll look doing it) under the influence of adrenalin.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Robin, well I&#8217;m really not sure how Jerry Lewis runs but I&#8217;m laughing anyway. You never know what you will do (or how silly you&#8217;ll look doing it) under the influence of adrenalin.</p>
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		<title>By: Robin Easton</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 17:52:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am laughing my face off over Steven&#039;s comment here. I laughed out loud. FANTASTIC imagery!!  Now I feel as if I REALLY have seen Jonathan running like Jerry Lewis!!! :) 

Aaahhh, you gotta love it!
.-= Robin Easton´s last amazing blog post ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://nakedineden.com/nakedinedenblog/how-we-shape-our-world/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How We Shape Our World&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am laughing my face off over Steven&#8217;s comment here. I laughed out loud. FANTASTIC imagery!!  Now I feel as if I REALLY have seen Jonathan running like Jerry Lewis!!! <img src='http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>Aaahhh, you gotta love it!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Robin Easton´s last amazing blog post ..<a href="http://nakedineden.com/nakedinedenblog/how-we-shape-our-world/" rel="nofollow">How We Shape Our World</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Robin Easton</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robin Easton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 17:49:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Jonathan,

 I&#039;ve wanted to get here sooner, but am just swamped with work. However, I just LOVE this article - read it twice over the last few days. One of the best I&#039;ve read on fear. So many thoughts here but since I have a meeting in about 10 mins I will pick one of the thoughts I had. 

I so relate  to this: &quot;If we choose to surround ourselves with positive energy, that is what we will reflect. We tend to see ourselves reflected in the world around us. If we are fostering fear, the world will look more fearful. On the other hand, if our reality is built around positive energy, that is what our world will reflect back at us.&quot;

Like you, I don&#039;t watch TV, read Newspapers, news, etc. I think that not only do we reflect to the world what we CHOOSE to take in, and not only do we more often than not have that reflected back to us, BUT (and for the sake of sounding &quot;flaky&quot;) we also seem to draw a whole host of like beings to us. Example: for me, I choose the positive, life-filling, proactive, non-judgmental, totally moving into the world from a powerful &quot;this is who I am and I am in LOVE with Life&quot; place. I think this not only does all that you mention above, but it seems to bring like-minded people (such as yourself) into my life, both online and off, and this surrounds me with even more strength and -- if you will -- a protective energy. 

Now I know this sounds a bit &quot;whoo whoo&quot;, but I think in many ways it really does protect me from any negativity out there. Because it make me FEEL stronger and more powerful to have that reflection you speak of above. So I move into the world from a strong place of knowing who I am and what I&#039;m about. 

I think when we move through the world from a place of fear, victim-hood, feeling weak, and so on, we are more easily preyed upon by social predators. It&#039;s just like in the wild; if a predator senses fear or weakness in their prey they correlate that with an easier meal (in society: an easier &quot;target&quot;). I think it&#039;s animal instinct to do so, even in the human animal. 

I just loved the stories here, fabulous and so relate to it all. And the honoring of fear, and yet the look at different types of fear and what we DO have control over. Beautiful and so grounded in your &quot;wild wisdom&quot;. Very good my friend. So rewarding seeing this part of you coming through. It comes out SO SO powerfully. I hope we get to see more. Hugs, Robin. :)
.-= Robin Easton´s last amazing blog post ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://nakedineden.com/nakedinedenblog/how-we-shape-our-world/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How We Shape Our World&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Jonathan,</p>
<p> I&#8217;ve wanted to get here sooner, but am just swamped with work. However, I just LOVE this article &#8211; read it twice over the last few days. One of the best I&#8217;ve read on fear. So many thoughts here but since I have a meeting in about 10 mins I will pick one of the thoughts I had. </p>
<p>I so relate  to this: &#8220;If we choose to surround ourselves with positive energy, that is what we will reflect. We tend to see ourselves reflected in the world around us. If we are fostering fear, the world will look more fearful. On the other hand, if our reality is built around positive energy, that is what our world will reflect back at us.&#8221;</p>
<p>Like you, I don&#8217;t watch TV, read Newspapers, news, etc. I think that not only do we reflect to the world what we CHOOSE to take in, and not only do we more often than not have that reflected back to us, BUT (and for the sake of sounding &#8220;flaky&#8221;) we also seem to draw a whole host of like beings to us. Example: for me, I choose the positive, life-filling, proactive, non-judgmental, totally moving into the world from a powerful &#8220;this is who I am and I am in LOVE with Life&#8221; place. I think this not only does all that you mention above, but it seems to bring like-minded people (such as yourself) into my life, both online and off, and this surrounds me with even more strength and &#8212; if you will &#8212; a protective energy. </p>
<p>Now I know this sounds a bit &#8220;whoo whoo&#8221;, but I think in many ways it really does protect me from any negativity out there. Because it make me FEEL stronger and more powerful to have that reflection you speak of above. So I move into the world from a strong place of knowing who I am and what I&#8217;m about. </p>
<p>I think when we move through the world from a place of fear, victim-hood, feeling weak, and so on, we are more easily preyed upon by social predators. It&#8217;s just like in the wild; if a predator senses fear or weakness in their prey they correlate that with an easier meal (in society: an easier &#8220;target&#8221;). I think it&#8217;s animal instinct to do so, even in the human animal. </p>
<p>I just loved the stories here, fabulous and so relate to it all. And the honoring of fear, and yet the look at different types of fear and what we DO have control over. Beautiful and so grounded in your &#8220;wild wisdom&#8221;. Very good my friend. So rewarding seeing this part of you coming through. It comes out SO SO powerfully. I hope we get to see more. Hugs, Robin. <img src='http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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		<title>By: Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:30:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Zeenat, when people are facing their inner fears, I think there is a tendency to feel like they are the only one with that challenge. In reality, I think this is probably one of the most common challenges facing all people. 

I like to think of fear as a door to greater personal growth. Of course, it&#039;s only a door if we go through it. Otherwise it&#039;s a wall.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Zeenat, when people are facing their inner fears, I think there is a tendency to feel like they are the only one with that challenge. In reality, I think this is probably one of the most common challenges facing all people. </p>
<p>I like to think of fear as a door to greater personal growth. Of course, it&#8217;s only a door if we go through it. Otherwise it&#8217;s a wall.</p>
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		<title>By: Zeenat{Positive Provocations}</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zeenat{Positive Provocations}</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 12:14:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>HI Jonathan,
I so so so loved this post and the topic is just phenomenal! Cause we all at some point in our lives have been through and faced some kind of fear. 
Our choice to be fearful or not makes or breaks us for the future for sure. If it makes us we become stronger individuals for it..and positive thinking is a miraculous healer.
If however we chose to let the fear consume us..we live a life full of fear, never taking chances and cultivating emotional and psychological issues will hinder our very existence.
Our choice to be perceptually fearless will indeed be a great achievement! 
Thank you fro writing about this....And Steven is in a zone with his funny comment :) I laughed while reading it..and could imagine it..;)
Much Love,
Z~
.-= Zeenat{Positive Provocations}´s last amazing blog post ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://zeenatsyal.wordpress.com/2010/03/10/8-cues-for-developing-passion/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;8 Cues for Developing Passion&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>HI Jonathan,<br />
I so so so loved this post and the topic is just phenomenal! Cause we all at some point in our lives have been through and faced some kind of fear.<br />
Our choice to be fearful or not makes or breaks us for the future for sure. If it makes us we become stronger individuals for it..and positive thinking is a miraculous healer.<br />
If however we chose to let the fear consume us..we live a life full of fear, never taking chances and cultivating emotional and psychological issues will hinder our very existence.<br />
Our choice to be perceptually fearless will indeed be a great achievement!<br />
Thank you fro writing about this&#8230;.And Steven is in a zone with his funny comment <img src='http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I laughed while reading it..and could imagine it..;)<br />
Much Love,<br />
Z~<br />
<span class="cluv"> Zeenat{Positive Provocations}´s last amazing blog post ..<a href="http://zeenatsyal.wordpress.com/2010/03/10/8-cues-for-developing-passion/" rel="nofollow">8 Cues for Developing Passion</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 06:23:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good points John, I hear people comment about harboring a degree of fear when it comes  to facing those inner challenges more than any others. 

I love what you said: &quot;I have found the greatest joy and success when I have released a persistent fear and moved through and past it. New worlds open up on the other side of fear.&quot; So often fear is a door.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good points John, I hear people comment about harboring a degree of fear when it comes  to facing those inner challenges more than any others. </p>
<p>I love what you said: &#8220;I have found the greatest joy and success when I have released a persistent fear and moved through and past it. New worlds open up on the other side of fear.&#8221; So often fear is a door.</p>
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