Comments on: 65 Ways to Make Her Feel Special http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/65-ways-to-make-her-feel-special/ Strategies for Positive Change Fri, 10 Feb 2012 17:29:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: laura http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/65-ways-to-make-her-feel-special/comment-page-1/#comment-39234 laura Tue, 31 Jan 2012 10:32:28 +0000 http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/?p=1859#comment-39234 It is the small things that create happiness and this is a lovely list and goes both ways. We should learn to honor each other as people. It is the small things that create happiness and this is a lovely list and goes both ways. We should learn to honor each other as people.

]]> By: John http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/65-ways-to-make-her-feel-special/comment-page-1/#comment-39155 John Sun, 29 Jan 2012 23:57:43 +0000 http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/?p=1859#comment-39155 Sounds like a lot of work to me.... Sounds like a lot of work to me….

]]> By: dorie http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/65-ways-to-make-her-feel-special/comment-page-1/#comment-39026 dorie Fri, 27 Jan 2012 04:41:57 +0000 http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/?p=1859#comment-39026 i love your list and certainly believe that if men and women equally followed each list, almost every relationship would be perfect. my feelings are much like that of lois and rebecca. i know the easy answer for some is to just leave the relationship. but i'm not quite ready to take that action. unfortunately, i don't know of many men who treat their wives with this level of honor, love respect and dignity. but too often i find women giving men their all, doing many if not all of the things on the list but not getting much in return. i have an important question... but i don't want to appear immature. my boyfriend of 8 years refuses to be fb friends and it bothers me so much i want to leave him. of course there are other unresolved issues in our relationship but the facebook issue would be a part of the top five reasons i want out. what are your thoughts on this? In my opinion, not being fb friends also stating we are (in a relationship) clearly violates numbers, 30, 34, 44, 45, 49, 51, and 59. it seems silly to say, "i'm leaving you because you won't be my fb friend". lol... it even seems silly typing it out now. however, i don't think he truly understands how this one little thing is impacting the stability of our relationship. do you have any advice? thanks so much! i love your list and certainly believe that if men and women equally followed each list, almost every relationship would be perfect. my feelings are much like that of lois and rebecca. i know the easy answer for some is to just leave the relationship. but i’m not quite ready to take that action.

unfortunately, i don’t know of many men who treat their wives with this level of honor, love respect and dignity. but too often i find women giving men their all, doing many if not all of the things on the list but not getting much in return.

i have an important question… but i don’t want to appear immature. my boyfriend of 8 years refuses to be fb friends and it bothers me so much i want to leave him. of course there are other unresolved issues in our relationship but the facebook issue would be a part of the top five reasons i want out. what are your thoughts on this?

In my opinion, not being fb friends also stating we are (in a relationship) clearly violates numbers, 30, 34, 44, 45, 49, 51, and 59. it seems silly to say, “i’m leaving you because you won’t be my fb friend”. lol… it even seems silly typing it out now. however, i don’t think he truly understands how this one little thing is impacting the stability of our relationship.

do you have any advice?

thanks so much!

]]> By: Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/65-ways-to-make-her-feel-special/comment-page-1/#comment-37763 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills Mon, 02 Jan 2012 00:32:39 +0000 http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/?p=1859#comment-37763 Hi Helena, I think most women would welcome someone who would show them this kind of appreciation. Hi Helena, I think most women would welcome someone who would show them this kind of appreciation.

]]> By: Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/65-ways-to-make-her-feel-special/comment-page-1/#comment-37761 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills Mon, 02 Jan 2012 00:26:10 +0000 http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/?p=1859#comment-37761 Interesting comment Omar, I think most women can tell the difference between looking as in observing, and looking with a desire. If a woman has a hard time discerning one from the other, perhaps the man hasn't worked to build enough trust into the relationship. Either that or his mouth is saying one thing, but his body language is saying another. Interesting comment Omar, I think most women can tell the difference between looking as in observing, and looking with a desire. If a woman has a hard time discerning one from the other, perhaps the man hasn’t worked to build enough trust into the relationship. Either that or his mouth is saying one thing, but his body language is saying another.

]]> By: Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/65-ways-to-make-her-feel-special/comment-page-1/#comment-37760 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills Mon, 02 Jan 2012 00:18:48 +0000 http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/?p=1859#comment-37760 Well said Emma, it goes both ways. Well said Emma, it goes both ways.

]]> By: Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/65-ways-to-make-her-feel-special/comment-page-1/#comment-37759 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills Mon, 02 Jan 2012 00:15:40 +0000 http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/?p=1859#comment-37759 Rebecca and Lois, thanks for your candor ladies. There are two facts about relationships that we all need to accept and sometimes that can be difficult. <em><strong>1) It takes two to make a relationship work. 2) It only takes one to ruin a relationship.</strong></em> Ladies, you can't do it all, that is not a relationship. You might consider having your men read the list and your comments. That way they will see exactly how you feel. If knowing your feelings doesn't wake them up then you need to honest about what that indicates. If it does wake them up then their actions should make that obvious. If you try this, please let me know how things turn out. Rebecca and Lois, thanks for your candor ladies. There are two facts about relationships that we all need to accept and sometimes that can be difficult.
1) It takes two to make a relationship work.
2) It only takes one to ruin a relationship.
Ladies, you can’t do it all, that is not a relationship. You might consider having your men read the list and your comments. That way they will see exactly how you feel. If knowing your feelings doesn’t wake them up then you need to honest about what that indicates. If it does wake them up then their actions should make that obvious.

If you try this, please let me know how things turn out.

]]> By: Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/65-ways-to-make-her-feel-special/comment-page-1/#comment-37758 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills Mon, 02 Jan 2012 00:03:26 +0000 http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/?p=1859#comment-37758 Very true K, I think the important thing is the effort they make. We all fall short at times, but we can still continue to make improvements. Very true K, I think the important thing is the effort they make. We all fall short at times, but we can still continue to make improvements.

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